The sperm must go to the egg, not the egg to the sperm. Get it ?

Men born in the 1900s are more to women throwing at them (like eating fast food / maggie mee), when men born previous in 1980s are know to chase girls in order to know her better. These days, the female does much of the chasing herself, men have the option of being more passive and not the chasing. Now, lets turn back the rules and let the men chase! Which has been and since ancient times, and our ancestors!

What guys want ?

- Sex (Malaysians like free stuff, does not they? include free sex too) Stay away from such male - specimens. They are only good for experiment purposes. Figure out his integrity here, you do not want to hook up with a person like this. There are also stories, that men sleep with other girls which have boyfriends in order to get sex. This is real, OMG, they should get a real gf for themselves. For good, when time run out, the girl married and he start searching again.

- Anything, hello any girls come here (I think they have no idea what they want, just want to become Bandaraya fish)

- Serious Relationship (someone who desires long term)

Set your frame right at the first place and chase away guys that are you are not intended to. IF you are looking for fun the option 1 is sure for you. But if you are opt for long term option 3 is sure for you.

Online Relationship: Do not stay online or a phone relationship

- Stop building fantasy and filling the blanks, be real so meet real people.

- Do not waste time on uncertainty and imagination with no way of verifying

Hangover

- If he ask you for a hang-over and chit chat, please ignore him as he is wasting your time. Save your emotion and give way to guy that are serious on getting and knowing you in a good way. Further, a hangover sounds cheap.

- Simply decline his offer for a hangover and move on if he does not ask you for a proper date.

Thus, free yourself from the wondering, fantasy, humiliation and torturing. Tell him, "Sorry, I do not prefer to hang out and only go for dates". If the other party does not step out to get you, draw him out from your list.

That is it!

Date: Appointment made by a man in advance to meet you so he can get to know you and do something you both can enjoy, planned by him and to make things happen for real!

- He is the one that initiate the call. Let him do the hard work, time and effort to get your company

- Get your dates right, do not sleep with him on the first date up to the fourth date (best is if he wan wait until marriage). By waiting, it is simply a way to protect yourself from harmful and emotional hurt / distraught. Further, by giving sex without the other party lifting any finger is simply lower your value.

- When dating let him explore you, do not overfed him with all your information about yourself. Let it be a mystery to him and discover it.

He ask you to be his girlfriend, being exclusive

- Let him make room in his life. Do not put away your friends for him, make him put his friends for yours!

- Let him make more effort to push the relationship to another level and quality time together

- Let him pursue you and not the other way round, you do not persue a guy.

- You just need to enjoy life and do activities you love most.

Conversation

- No matter what a guy says, his action is more powerful. Do not replace it with text messages so you are able to distinguish truth from lies.

Conclusion

- You are going to child bear babies for your partner, as such one must be careful and selective to protect yourself and also your future offspring. IF your current mate is unable to do the responsibility, move on and let your life be filled with people meaningful to you. Do not waste your time.