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10:25 PM
Azurebluesky
Men born in the 1900s are more to women throwing at them (like eating fast food / maggie mee), when men born previous in 1980s are know to chase girls in order to know her better. These days, the female does much of the chasing herself, men have the option of being more passive and not the chasing. Now, lets turn back the rules and let the men chase! Which has been and since ancient times, and our ancestors!
What guys want ?
- Sex (Malaysians like free stuff, does not they? include free sex too) Stay away from such male - specimens. They are only good for experiment purposes. Figure out his integrity here, you do not want to hook up with a person like this. There are also stories, that men sleep with other girls which have boyfriends in order to get sex. This is real, OMG, they should get a real gf for themselves. For good, when time run out, the girl married and he start searching again.
- Anything, hello any girls come here (I think they have no idea what they want, just want to become Bandaraya fish)
- Serious Relationship (someone who desires long term)
Set your frame right at the first place and chase away guys that are you are not intended to. IF you are looking for fun the option 1 is sure for you. But if you are opt for long term option 3 is sure for you.
Online Relationship: Do not stay online or a phone relationship
- Stop building fantasy and filling the blanks, be real so meet real people.
- Do not waste time on uncertainty and imagination with no way of verifying
Hangover
- If he ask you for a hang-over and chit chat, please ignore him as he is wasting your time. Save your emotion and give way to guy that are serious on getting and knowing you in a good way. Further, a hangover sounds cheap.
- Simply decline his offer for a hangover and move on if he does not ask you for a proper date.
Thus, free yourself from the wondering, fantasy, humiliation and torturing. Tell him, "Sorry, I do not prefer to hang out and only go for dates". If the other party does not step out to get you, draw him out from your list.
That is it!
Date: Appointment made by a man in advance to meet you so he can get to know you and do something you both can enjoy, planned by him and to make things happen for real!
- He is the one that initiate the call. Let him do the hard work, time and effort to get your company
- Get your dates right, do not sleep with him on the first date up to the fourth date (best is if he wan wait until marriage). By waiting, it is simply a way to protect yourself from harmful and emotional hurt / distraught. Further, by giving sex without the other party lifting any finger is simply lower your value.
- When dating let him explore you, do not overfed him with all your information about yourself. Let it be a mystery to him and discover it.
He ask you to be his girlfriend, being exclusive
- Let him make room in his life. Do not put away your friends for him, make him put his friends for yours!
- Let him make more effort to push the relationship to another level and quality time together
- Let him pursue you and not the other way round, you do not persue a guy.
- You just need to enjoy life and do activities you love most.
Conversation
- No matter what a guy says, his action is more powerful. Do not replace it with text messages so you are able to distinguish truth from lies.
Conclusion
- You are going to child bear babies for your partner, as such one must be careful and selective to protect yourself and also your future offspring. IF your current mate is unable to do the responsibility, move on and let your life be filled with people meaningful to you. Do not waste your time.
2:35 AM
Azurebluesky
Dalai Lama meaning of life.....
Dalai Lama's 18 Rules of Living:
1) Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk
2) When you lose, do not lose the lesson
3) Follow the three R's - Respect for self, Respect for others, Responsibility for all your actions
4) Remember that not getting what you want is sometime a wonderful stroke of luck
5) Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly
6) Do not let a little dispute injure a great friendship
7) When you realize you have made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it
8) Spend some time alone every day
9) Open your arms to change, but do not let go of your values
10) Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer
11) Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you will be able to enjoy it a second time
12) A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life
13) In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Do not bring up the past
14) Share your knowledge, it is a way to achieve immortality
15) Be gentle with the earth
16) Once a year, go somewhere you never been before
17) Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceed your need for each other
18) Judge your success by what you have to give up on order to get it
12:59 AM
Azurebluesky
For the past few years, smart phones has become part and parcel of our lives. As such, more and more mobile social apps are engraving to our daily to do list.
Thus, it is important to have a good messaging etiquette
1) Keep your message short and simple. Important and long messages are meant to be delivered face-to-face in order to show our sincerity. i.e. Condolences, Congratulations of Baby Birth....
2) Do not break up with your gf and bf using using SMS, Whatsapp or Wechat
3) Do not put emotions when replying
4) Do not use your mobile phone when you are driving and or socializing with a bunch of friends. You will get yourself into trouble (Police Traffic Officer) or your friends thinking you as unfriendly
5) Do not keep looking at your mobile phone, every second and minute. Keep it minimal, HAVE A LIFE
6) If necessary, leave a voice message or call the person that make a difference to your life. Do not be a CHEAPSKATE to save a few cents by messaging online.
7) Keep sexting to a minimal, do not post your private pictures to your gf and bf unless you do not mind the exposure on the picture / video to go viral one day. Also, avoid the confusion from being blackmailed.
7) Keep sexting to a minimal, do not post your private pictures to your gf and bf unless you do not mind the exposure on the picture / video to go viral one day. Also, avoid the confusion from being blackmailed.
Last but not lease, humans are nothing if we do not value real friendship and face-to-face communication.
GET A LIFE :)
12:10 PM
Azurebluesky
Today, people are trying to dominate each other. People often strive hard for money, power and position so that they will have control over others.
However, everyone should make every effort to conquer one's anger, jealousy, pride and greed and other shortcomings. If we can conquer ourselves, others will trust and respect us for our victory.
Here is a quote that will come in handy
However, everyone should make every effort to conquer one's anger, jealousy, pride and greed and other shortcomings. If we can conquer ourselves, others will trust and respect us for our victory.
Here is a quote that will come in handy
Through one should conquer a thousand times a thousand men in battle, he who conquers his own self is the greatest of all conquerors - unknown
9:21 PM
Azurebluesky
The ALS Ice Bucket Challenge has blew up the social media lately and many people had join the challenge!
I hope that in the process of the fun and excitement, we will not forget the spirit of the Challenge.
Let's not forget to promote awareness of ALS and for that matter, a host of other diseases that are causing untold pain and suffering to humanity.
Let's use the Challenge to promote a charitable heart and a spirit of giving.
If a bucket of ice water can unite more people in love, compassion, and kindness, it's probably worth wasting the precious resource.
Better still, I challenge each and every person to continue to find even better ways to promote a good cause.
Let's make the world a better home.
11:31 PM
Azurebluesky
Those who know the nature of mental activities say that once taught is made, weather good or bad, it is permanently implanted within the mind.
It is a good to ponder on this concept and consider which ideas we should entertain and implement because of such taught will effect us:-
The taught manifest as the word
The word manifests as the deed
The deed develop into habit
And the habit hardness into character
So watch your taughts and it way with care. We are what we think and all that we arises from our taughts, weather it is in the past, present or future.
We should cultivate the habit of being constantly mindful of what we say. Then, we will able to distinguish between those manners of speech that can make people happy or annoy them.
Thoughts can be controlled and become harmless and noble.
It is a good to ponder on this concept and consider which ideas we should entertain and implement because of such taught will effect us:-
The taught manifest as the word
The word manifests as the deed
The deed develop into habit
And the habit hardness into character
So watch your taughts and it way with care. We are what we think and all that we arises from our taughts, weather it is in the past, present or future.
We should cultivate the habit of being constantly mindful of what we say. Then, we will able to distinguish between those manners of speech that can make people happy or annoy them.
Thoughts can be controlled and become harmless and noble.
11:21 PM
Azurebluesky
A human being is a lonely being. It seeks love and understanding. It seeks to find this love from another human being, in the arms of another human being.
It yearns for somebody to be its companion in the journey of life. But it is not uncommon for a human being to find heartbreak instead, to have its dreams shattered, its heart broken.
Have you been heart broken before ? Your world collapsed and everything in life is not worth living for ?
If you make your happiness to depend on others, it will never be secure. As the other party might also be shaky and vulnerable.
Hearts are meant to be broken --- Oscar Wilde
It yearns for somebody to be its companion in the journey of life. But it is not uncommon for a human being to find heartbreak instead, to have its dreams shattered, its heart broken.
Have you been heart broken before ? Your world collapsed and everything in life is not worth living for ?
If you make your happiness to depend on others, it will never be secure. As the other party might also be shaky and vulnerable.
Hearts are meant to be broken --- Oscar Wilde
5:31 AM
Azurebluesky
My boy friend is like a green eye monster....
I overheard a girlfriend talking to me straight to my eyes. That make me thinking, why a human will act that way toward the person they claim they love most, care for and apple of their eye.
Why ? Really, jealousy matters ?
Have you got that felling chilling inside you sometime ? ever ?
It makes me thinking what are the cause of jealousy. When we take photo and usually after the photo is delivered to our hands, our first reaction is trying hard to find our own face in the photo.
Why ? I guess SELFISHNESS is the answer.
This lead me to a conclusion, when a human become eccentric and self-centered, they only live for themselves and regards of all other beings as potential rivals and is scared of other success. Thus this makes a person become completely unsociable, dangerous and will create problems to endanger the current relationship.
In fact, she should be more care-free, and confident of her own beauty. This problem can be solve if the female loves herself good enough then wasting time and effort to be jealous of other party.
It makes me thinking what are the cause of jealousy. When we take photo and usually after the photo is delivered to our hands, our first reaction is trying hard to find our own face in the photo.
Why ? I guess SELFISHNESS is the answer.
This lead me to a conclusion, when a human become eccentric and self-centered, they only live for themselves and regards of all other beings as potential rivals and is scared of other success. Thus this makes a person become completely unsociable, dangerous and will create problems to endanger the current relationship.
In fact, she should be more care-free, and confident of her own beauty. This problem can be solve if the female loves herself good enough then wasting time and effort to be jealous of other party.
12:47 AM
Azurebluesky
Have you ever lost your pet, a good friend, your parents, your spouse, loss of family members MH17 / MH370 or a sudden loss of job and your favorite buddy ?
Also, would like to give a tribute to the late Robbin Williams....
Things like this can happen to us, and as humans we must strive thru and sail through good and bad times. If you find yourself facing such challenging situation :-
(a) Talk to your friends and family Keep it a must to talk to them and explain your feeling of loss to them. Do it everyday for 5 mins at least. If this cannot be done, go to a community church or call Befrienders
(b) Give time to forgive yourself
More then enough we will feel the sudden lose and our first reaction is to accept it and to bring that it is a reality. The sooner with accept the fact that they are gone the sooner we can heal our pain
(c) Keep a positive mind
Do not ever think of negative, replace it with the positive memories that you have share with them. If you feel that you did not spend enough time with them when they are alive, try to do something positive that they will be proud of i.e. volunteer for events, donate to the charity using the deceased names as a remembrance
(d) Grief and move on
Live is as it is, Move on. Do not take too long to grief. Stay strong as you would live like the very end of the day.
(e) Keep on learning new things and contribute back to society
This would be a good way to deal with challenging situationAs a last note, it will be difficult to go thru this situation alone. Negative taughts will start to cloud your mind. Take time to review, rewind and heal the pain. Once it is done, bounce back to be a better person to appreciate life more then ever.
Affirmation for those facing Challenging Time
"I look for the good in every challenging situation that occurs to me. I declare to change my life by changing my thinking about challenging events and also to have a positive mindset. I claim the good, knowing that pain will go away and good events will come to me."
4:50 PM
Azurebluesky
happiness
ˈhapɪnəs/
noun
- the state of being happy."she struggled to find happiness in her life"
Yet, despite their striving, they are often rather nearer to what they have tried to work for. Why is this so ? The poor are trying to make earnings to live day by day and to reach wealthiness.
The rich and wealthy people are more afraid to lose their accumulated wealth and of losing it all after spending a lifetime chasing rainbows. So how do you define happiness ?
Happiness is a journey, not in the destination. Happy is when he is enriching the lifes of all those about him. Happy is her who work, whos chores, whos daily tasks are labour of love. Happy is he whos love. Happy is he who is happy.
Mental Taughts - Happiness also include the way you think and your daily taughts. Make it a habit to think positive as this will uplift your spirit and your energy.
8:14 AM
Azurebluesky
When I interview different persons, different answers can be heard when people are asked which is more important ?
To a misers, his money is more important. To a wealthy man, his life is more important. And to a great man, his principles are far more important than his money or life. But such great people are rare and are like jewels.
Truely great people have one thing in common, their wisdom, sympathy, power, energy, knowledge to the mankind. A persons maybe very intelligent, but if he abuses it for his own selfish desires, then it is considered to have neglect himself badly.
'Some measure their lifes by days and years, Other by heart throbs, passion and tears, But the surest measure under the sun, Is what in your lifetime for others you have done' Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover. –Mark Twain
Truely great people have one thing in common, their wisdom, sympathy, power, energy, knowledge to the mankind. A persons maybe very intelligent, but if he abuses it for his own selfish desires, then it is considered to have neglect himself badly.
'Some measure their lifes by days and years, Other by heart throbs, passion and tears, But the surest measure under the sun, Is what in your lifetime for others you have done' Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore, Dream, Discover. –Mark Twain
6:13 PM
Azurebluesky
Many people walk thru live waiting things to happen instead of making it happen. Many dream-
walk thru life and wait others to make their dream happens. If you have a great desire to move your life towards success i.e. time freedom, money freedom lifestyle freedom.
Do not let others expectation of you become your reality. Built your dreams today, or someone else will hire you to built their dreams. Spend more time doing things that help you built your dreams.
Find coach and or mentors that have been thru your part.
walk thru life and wait others to make their dream happens. If you have a great desire to move your life towards success i.e. time freedom, money freedom lifestyle freedom.
Do not let others expectation of you become your reality. Built your dreams today, or someone else will hire you to built their dreams. Spend more time doing things that help you built your dreams.
Find coach and or mentors that have been thru your part.
| Robert Frost (1874–1963). Mountain Interval. 1920. |
| 1. The Road Not Taken |
What are you waiting for, leave your dreams today and do not dreamwalk thru life. |
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